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Get Unstuck!

How many times have you simply sat and asked yourself, "What am I really supposed to be doing with my life?"

We have all been in a rut, unable to decide what to do and how to go about accomplishing it. Every now and then, it is time to take serious inventory of where you have been, where you are and where you would like to be.

Now is a great time to stop doing any and everything that is not working for you. Start by trying something that you have never tried before or, perhaps, approach what you have been doing with a different method, with different people or in a different environment.

You must be honest with yourself when you answer the question, "Is what I am doing really working for me?" If you are angry, anxious or frustrated with where you are, start new: let go of anything that has held you back from your aspirations and goals. Get some friends together to brainstorm and keep listening to our shows; we are planning a conversation with some women who can show you the way. If you are someone who works in the coaching profession, contact us about participating in the program.


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“Break Your Own Rules: How to Change the Patterns of Thinking that Block Women’s Paths to Power” by Jill Flynn, Kathryn Heath, and Mary Davis Holt

c.2011 Jossey Bass                                    $25.95 / $30.95 Canada                        208 pages

 

You’ve run out of breath just running in place.

For months now, you’ve been more than willing to work sixty-hour weeks. Nights and weekends are the norm and you never complained. You’ve taken classes, gotten certified, volunteered for committees, but it hasn’t seemed to matter.

Your career is stalled, you’re running place, and you just can’t get ahead.

So what’s holding you back?  According to authors Jill Flynn, Kathryn Heath, and Mary Davis Holt, the problem might be you. In the new book “Break Your Own Rules”, they’ll tell you how to step aside and let yourself fly.

When it comes to work, you might think that tooting your own horn is akin to bragging. You’ve got a responsibility to nurture the careers of those below you, right? You might believe you’re just plain lucky to have a job, period.

But you’d still like to succeed and grow. In order to do that, Flynn, Heath, and Holt say that you need to learn to think differently. By doing so, you’ll be able to act differently and opportunity will follow.  In this book, they’ve identified six major stumbling blocks to career advancement.

Biologically, you’re hard-wired to be nurturing but focusing on others won’t get you ahead. Instead, take your own goals seriously. Learn to say NO. Practice taking center stage. And notice that your male co-workers aren’t the ones leaping to organize birthday cakes and baby showers…

Be brazen and bold. Asking permission, over-apologizing, and wanting to be liked are holding you back. Instead, learn to take action and make decisions. Make things happen, and see what happens.

Seize the power. Act like the executive you want to be and don’t be modest. Instead, be poised, confident, and take credit for your ideas and your work. Toot that horn!

Remember that you may be limiting yourself if you want “all or nothing.”  There is such a thing as “both-and,” so learn to relax and compromise with yourself.

Understand that there’s no way to avoid office politics or sales. The good news is that women excel at both of them. Learn to “run for office at the office” and know that work is a game you really can win.

When you first pick up “Break Your Own Rules,” you may wonder if such a skinny book could possibly hold much real, useful information.

Rest assured, though: it does.

Authors Jill Flynn, Kathryn Heath, and Mary Davis Holt say in their introduction that their dream is to see women in 30% of the top leadership positions in corporate America. This book is packed with guidance and thought-changing information to make that happen - so packed that it practically begs to be read over time and with careful pondering. Good habits, after all, will take more than a quick, half-hearted 208-page browsing.

If you’re tired of bonking your head on the glass ceiling and you’re ready for career advancement, this book may be just what you need. “Break Your Own Rules” is, in fact, a book you should run and get.

 


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Spotlight on Success: Talk Show Host Wendy Williams Says it Like She Means it!

 

Wendy Williams

“The Wendy Williams Show”

Interview with Kam Williams

 

     Born in Asbury Park, New Jersey on July 18, 1964, Wendy Joan Williams burst onto the TV landscape in July 2009 with the launch of her own nationally-syndicated talk show. Dubbed a “breakthrough in daytime” by The New York Times, “The Wendy Williams Show” is now in its third season and airs in 52 countries around the world.

      “The Wendy Williams Show” is a reflection of its host; with its vibrant colors and upbeat soundtrack matching Williams’ own personality and energetic sense of humor. And the show’s focus on entertainment reflects her passion for pop culture.

        By design, whenever she interviews celebrity guests, it’s from the perspective of a fan, as she asks the questions that her audience wants to hear. A lover of classic television, Williams’ style is inspired by her childhood idols like Dinah Shore and Merv Griffin.

        Prior to makinf the transition to daytime television, Wendy built a devoted audience over the course of an enormously-successful 23-year run in radio. “The Wendy Williams Experience” was a top-rated, nationally-syndicated show which reached over 12 million people daily. In November of 2009, she was inducted into the National Radio Hall of Fame—one of only a handful of women to enjoy the honor.

         Wendy recently competed on Season 12 of ABC’s smash hit “Dancing with The Stars.” Her other television credits include serving as host of Game Show Network’s original series “Love Triangle” and as a featured guest on ABC’s “One Life to Live” and Lifetime’s “Drop Dead Diva.”

         She is also the author of the New York Times best seller The Wendy Williams Experience, as well as several novels including Ritz Harper Goes to Hollywood. Plus, she presently contributes a weekly celebrity hot topics column to the weekly entertainment magazine “Life & Style.” 

          A child of a teacher and a college professor, Williams earned a Bachelor’s degree in Communications with a minor in Journalism at Northeastern University, and she remains a very vocal education advocate. She credits the start of her career with the decision to take an internship at a radio station on St. Croix, Virgin Islands immediately following her graduation from college.

          Wendy resides in Northern New Jersey with her husband, Kevin, and their 11 year-old son, Kevin, Jr. Here, she talks about her life and career.  

  

Kam Williams: Hi Wendy, How you doin’?

Wendy Williams: [Laughs] How you doin’, Kam? You doing good?

 

KW: I’m awwwlllright! Ann-Marie Nacchio, a loyal fan of yours from Philly, told me to start the interview with “How you doin’?” because that would probably help relax you.  

WW: And it did! That’s the official greeting of the show.

 

KW: How did being raised by two educators shape you?

WW: I know firsthand that educators are the most overworked and underpaid people around. It influenced me in that it was always about family first, and education was right next to that. There was never any question about whether I was going to college. And it was important to my parents that I get my degree in 4 years, because “Money doesn’t grow on trees.” [LOL] I will support my son in whatever he wants to do professionally, but he will go to college, too. My husband and I are in concert on that.

 

KW: How hard is it juggling your career and being a mom?

WW: It’s not easy. He’s in the 6th grade.  

 

KW: You were certainly no stranger to controversy when you had the radio show. Do you think that might have been because you were the first African-American host to push the envelope in terms of gossip?

WW: Well, there were definitely elements of my rise in radio that had to do with my being black. But going back as far as Walter Winchell, Army Archerd and Hedda Hopper, legendary wags would grab a radio microphone and talk about what Errol Flynn and other stars were up to.

 

 KW: Alan Gray asks: Have you had any guests who just weren't very talkative? What do you do to try to get them to talk, and have there been any occasions where you couldn’t?

WW: No. Believe it or not, there are interesting elements in everyone. So, if I can’t talk to everybody for at least 7 to 10 minutes, then I’m in the wrong profession.

 

KW: Children’s book author Irene Smalls asks: Do you enjoy being a shock jockette and who are some of the celebrities you most enjoyed interviewing?

WW: That’s so funny! I enjoyed being what I was in radio, which some thought of as a shock jock although, to this day, I still can’t figure out what I’ve done that’s so shocking. [LOL] As to my favorite interviews, I loved having my mother and father on. I also enjoyed talking to Elmo, who’s a puppet. I found T.I.’s trying to be extra-cool very endearing. Tyra Banks was not the diva I expected her to be. I loooooved talking to her. And Simon Cowell is a really nice guy. Yeah! He’s my fave, and he’s handsome.  

 

KW: Irene also asks: What achievement are you most proud of, and what mountain do you still want to conquer?

WW: I’m most proud of our son, having suffered several miscarriages before having him. As for the next mountain, it takes so much to maintain what’s already going on that I don’t have time to think about it. But I want some more seasons of the TV show, I’d like to write another book, and eventually, I’d like to retire and take vacations with my husband like my mom and dad do.

  

KW: Professor/author/documentary filmmaker Hisani Dubose says: I would like to know, what was involved in making the transition from radio, where you aren't seen, to TV, where visibility is so important?

WW: Lipstick, foundation, a strip of lashes, and developing the ability to edit what I would normally say. I was always able to finish a thought on radio, because I had 4 hours. A one-hour TV show is only 44 minutes of programming. 

 

KW: Film director Kevin Williams asks: What was the biggest challenge you faced in making the move from radio to TV?

WW: Finding the fine line between satisfying a daytime TV audience and an afternoon radio audience. That involved editing down my delivery to under an hour. I’ve been blessed to have great producers and a great staff to achieve that. I have a small team but they’re very efficient.

 

KW: Jessica Kelly says: I love your wigs Wendy, but I want to hear more about your eye make-up. It’s sooooooo hot!
WW: [Laughs] Merrell Hollis has been doing my makeup since the beginning of the show. I just close my eyes and let him do his thing. He’s a genius!

 

KW: Aleesha Houston asks: What's the last gift you purchased for yourself?

WW: A wig! [Giggles] I’m picking it up on Monday. 

 

KW: Judyth Piazza asks: If you could change one thing about the entertainment industry, what would it be?

WW: More Wendy! [Roars]


KW: Teresa Emerson says: "How you doin' Wendy!" Who would you love to interview that you think may be afraid to come on your show; given your reputation for hard questions?

WW: I will take that as a rhetorical question.

 

KW: Lowery Gibson asks: What’s the real Wendy like, minus the wigs, makeup and "How you doin’?" Given that you had a breast endowment, do you recommend this cosmetic surgery?

WW: The real Wendy is a plain, regular girl with good skin. I do have hair, if he’s wondering about that. I have lots of witnesses to that. [Chuckles] And I’m a homebody. When I get off the phone with you, Kam, I’m going to the grocery store, because our power was out for 4 days. As for breast augmentation, I do recommend it for women over 30 who have a couple of extra dollars. But it’s not for a nutty schoolgirl who might just be doing it for a guy.

 

KW: Is there any question no one ever asks you, that you wish someone would?

WW: I have no answer. That’s a question I would really have to think about.

KW: The Columbus Short question: Are you happy?

WW: Yeaaaaahhhh!

 

KW: The Teri Emerson question: When was the last time you had a good laugh?

WW: A minute ago. I laugh all the time, loudly, with my mouth wide open, and all the way up to the tip of my wig. And I love just as hard. I only hope that people feel the passion when they watch my talk show. It comes from my soul. Kam, I can’t even describe to you what it feels like when I come through those double doors at 10 AM each morning. Sometimes, the emotions overwhelm me, and I start to cry.

 

KW: The bookworm Troy Johnson question: What was the last book you read?

WW: Oh brother, here you go. If you must know, my son was reading to me from a children’s book called “Mousetrap.” The last one I read myself was “Satan’s Sisters,” Star Jones’ novel about a fictitious talk show.  http://www.amazon.com/exec/obidos/ASIN/1439193002/ref=nosim/thslfofire-20

 

KW: The Sanaa Lathan question: What excites you?

WW: Doing the show. That 10 AM feeling when the doors open up. Forget about it! Also, my son coming home with a respectable grade on something that I know he’s worked hard on. And good health excites me, too.

 

KW: Dante Lee, author of "Black Business Secrets, asks: “What was the best business decision you ever made, and what was the worst?"

WW: I can’t narrow either one down to just one thing. I’ve rolled the dice and had both success and failure. I can tell you that right now we’re on a roll with the talk show. Everything is good with the TV show.

 

KW: Were you disappointed about your quick departure from Dancing with the Stars this season?

WW: I was relieved! I’m not a dancer, and it was very time-consuming. But I met great people, and it was flattering to be asked to be on. You don’t understand how demanding that show is until you’re on the inside. That is real work. Real work!

  

KW: The Melissa Harris-Perry question: How did your first big heartbreak impact who you are as a person?

WW: It made me stronger, although I never experienced any devastating teenage angst. I wasn’t that type of girl. I was more nomadic in my younger years.

 

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Emerging Business Owner’s Symposium

Tools to Overcoming Obstacles in an Unstable Economy

 

Saturday, March 31, 2012

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5655 Bryant Street, Pittsburgh, PA  15206

(Located in Highland Park between N. Negley and N. Highland)

 

Topics:

The Art of the Sales Pitch

The Price is Right:  Pricing Your Products and Services

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Social Media Management

Financing Your Business Venture

 

You’ll learn about:

Negotiating * Marketing Trends * Financial Forecasting * Networking * And More!

 

Early-Bird Registration:            $35.00 (until February 13, 2012)

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